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You Know You’re Dating A Manipulator If…

Found this on Beliefnet.com today felt like this might help somebody. Been there… done that… wrote the manuscript tucked away on a flash drive somewhere. ~Randi 

Watch for the signs…

Love is a long dance of give and take, but not for the manipulator. No way! They take and take. Here are eight signs to look out for.skd181880sdc

“Fickle and emotionally unpredictable.”

Manipulators are typically emotionally imbalanced. They tend to shift and treat people according to their varying moods. If one minute they are up and the next they are down, that’s a sign.

“They do the bare minimum.”

If you are giving a 100 percent and the person is only giving 10, that person is a taker. They are only doing enough to get by. Someone like this drains others for their own benefit.

“Use affection and charm to their advantage.”

Kind words, affection and emotional connection are wielded as weapons, not used for authentic relationship building.

“The relationship only progresses on their terms.”

A manipulator always wants to be in control, so they will shift the relationship forward or backward as it suits them.

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I'm still trying to figure it out too! I'm a child of God that has a lot to say. I've been given a platform on the air to say it but I tend to be a bit lengthy so enter my personal blog. My journey has been full as a single adoptive parent. As I struggle, I’m looking for answers and respite through writing. My mom wanted me to write a book  and I'm working on that, so bear with me as I fumble my way through. I'm working on balancing my extremely fun work life with my personal life that is filled with challenges these days. I know that God will see me to victory so... welcome to my life. ~Randi

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